When a person comes out, especially a “straight acting” guy that can hide it much more easily than others, and then you’re just blown away by the fact when you find out, there should seriously be a big giant party or something celebrating that, because, believe me or not, that is such a huge step in a person’s life.
No, I’m not a big fan of the term “come out,” because I feel like society makes a person think it’s necessary to have this special talk with someone about being gay. That’s like feeling like you need to have this big serious talk about your favorite color with someone. But no, I never “came out” to anyone except my three best friends in high school because back then, I didn’t know any better.
Being gay doesn’t define you. Just like having blonde hair, or liking a certain food or a certain band, or any other one single quality doesn’t define you. Being yourself is what defines you. And being yourself is everything.
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